Can Married Men and Women Be friends with their Ex on Facebook? Some might say my husband was my rebound relationship as I met him about a month after breaking off a very volatile long term one with a man who, although I knew our union couldn't every be consummated via wedded bliss, I simply couldn’t get out of my system. So I finally and very painfully ended our on again off again relationship … [Read more...]
We Danced Like No One Was Watching and Took a Leap of Faith: This Marriage has Provided us Both With the Confidence to Believe in Ourselves and Each Other
We Danced Like No One Was Watching I met my husband when I was 22 years old. Looking back now as a 47-year-old-married-22-years-wife-and-a-mother-to-two-kids-woman it is hard to remember who that girl was, and what she was thinking dating a man who was 15 years her senior. Of course at the time, while I had been in relationships prior to meeting this man who would become my husband, I never … [Read more...]
NEVER say these four things When you Argue with your Spouse
Are you a fighter? NEVER say these four things When You Argue with your Spouse. In a perfect marriage and a perfect world, my husband and I would NEVER fight. If we found ourselves in the midst of a disagreement, we'd let cooler heads prevail. We'd take a deep breath, look into one another's blue eyes (yes we both have blue eyes). We'd realize whatever we were fighting about, … [Read more...]
Should you tell your spouse everything about your past or are some secrets yours to keep?
Should you tell your spouse everything about your past or are some secrets yours to keep? Case in point: A man was awarded $100,000 after he successfully sued his wife over the fact that they had a baby he deemed ugly. How could this be!? well he subsequently came to find out that his wife slightly misrepresented her true self to him prior to their marriage- aka- she had $100,000 … [Read more...]
Signs your Spouse is your RIDE OR DIE
Being married for 19 years I guess would be IMPOSSIBLE if my spouse was not my ride or die person on this planet. When I say ride or die what do I mean: I mean this person would literally clasp hands with you and ride off a mountain cliff like Thelma and Louise did if you needed him to. Signs your Spouse is your RIDE OR DIE-- aka This person would essentially put his life in your hands because … [Read more...]