I am one of MANY women who read this week's NY Times Vows section, which essentially details a couple who found each other, while both were still married- and yet their undeniable attraction for each other could not be contained. Although they say, they never engaged in a physical relationship with each other while they were still married- after much consternation and internal examination on both … [Read more...]
Marriage is hard
I love my mother desperately- I owe her my life, quite literally- but I also know that her insistence that I marry a doctor or lawyer- had me convinced that to do otherwise would be sacrilege. In fact as soon as I turned 18 she began dropping comments- not so discreetly, like; when was I going to get married, who I should marry, etc. Although I went to college- the goal was not to find my passion … [Read more...]
Lost has been the glue that has held my marriage together for six years – now what?
My husband as I've "mentioned before" is not much of a night owl-- he needs to be in bed with the covers tucked under his chin by 8 pm.. okay wait sometimes, if he's feeling particularly adventurous he'll prop his eyes open with toothpicks for me and feign interest in whatever I'm talking about so that he can tell me the next morning-- see I did stay up and talk to you. Cause you know I'm always … [Read more...]
No I didn’t marry my sugar daddy…
I really feel the need to clarify the title of this blog- as I've been "notified" that it insinuates that I'm a gold digger. Let me just make one thing clear-- if I was TRULY a gold digger- when I met my husband who... unlike the other physicians I had dated (um by the time I got married was likely half the staff at NYC's St. Luke's Roosevelt and Mt. Sinai)- he was NEVER one to wear his M.D. … [Read more...]