So I write this blog, Married My Sugar daddy, and while I see it as a tongue n cheek chronicle of my experiences being married to a man who is 15 years older than me- if I dig a bit beneath the surface I know that our marriage wasn't an accident by any means. I'll admit it- I've had a "daddy complex" since the ripe old age of sixteen. It's not that I didn't have a father, I did. He was a very … [Read more...]
The wedding ring and why I don’t wear mine
As a 24 year old year old I was blinded by the brilliance of a Tiffany cut engagement ring, as in I HAD TO HAVE IT, which is actually quite antithetical to my nature. But I think I got slightly swept up by that crazy Bridezillaesque attitude that claims some of us women who allow themselves to get lost in trappings of becoming a bride. All of a sudden I had this pressing need to have a Tiffany … [Read more...]
What a phone call taught me about my marriage
Although I live in NYC, going into Manhattan each day via express bus or via the Bridge ala Working Girl- is not something I relish, especially during the oh so crowded month of March. Sure Sarah Jessica Parker made running the streets of Manhattan in six inch stilettos look glamorous, but the reality of it--I'm guessing- Ms. Parker has got some JACKED UP feet. I spent the better part of … [Read more...]
Do you ever really know if your partner is “the one”?
Last night I was on twitter and facebook ( yes not really a big stretch for me- considering that my son admonished me and said, the reason for all my looming deadlines is because I'm addicted to twitter and facebook.) I could only HANG my head in shame because this little 11 year old has me figured out to a T... but I digress. A couple I know, who lived together for five years and just tied the … [Read more...]
7 things you should never do in your marriage (if you can help it)
DISCLAIMER: DON'T read this post unless you have a sense of humor! This December marked my 18th year wedding anniversary- I know-- I can't believe it either. Eighteen years waking up to the same face, hearing those same tales of his rock star life pre-marriage, being schooled on the way one should dry their feet post shower and his insistence that washing a pair of jeans more than twice a year is … [Read more...]