Before you get the wrong idea- let me preface this blog post with this disclaimer this is actually a question that a very sweet twenty-something newlywed sent me on the Married my Sugar Daddy Facebook page (which of course has me giddy- being that my purpose in creating a page was to have a space where we could all bellyache and divulge what really goes on behind the closed doors of our marriages- … [Read more...]
Sex is Good for Your Relationship and Your Health (who knew?!) #SexIsHealthy
I am nothing if not completely bare bones honest on this blog which is why I can say without any reservations that UNTIL I got married I did not enjoy sex. Yes I had sex before marriage but with each "encounter" I struggled with such intense guilt after the fact that my sex life pre-marriage was not only fraught with anxiety, but to be as blunt as possible it SUCKED. I guess because I had such … [Read more...]
Why I Won’t be Seeing the Fifty Shades of Grey Movie
So apparently this movie "Fifty Shades of Grey" has tapped into the mommy porn market in a big way. Just for the record, I hate the phrase mommy porn, but I digress. For those of you living under a rock- aka you haven't yet read this tantalizing, lustful tale that has women across the country spontaneously combusting from the sheer mention of it, in a nutshell, the book depicts the erotic tale of … [Read more...]
Is married sex really the best sex?
I've been married for 16 years, which means I've technically been having sex with the same person for 16 years (if my mother is reading this I was a virgin before I got married). And while popular culture portrays married sex as perfunctory, stale and usually in the missionary position with a wife who often just rolls over to take one for the team--as a married lady I beg to differ. Married sex … [Read more...]
Apparently some believe you should stay in a marriage, no matter what
I believe you have to fight for your marriage- or in other words, you need to work on it every day. Like a job, like anything that is worth something to you- your marriage/relationship needs to be nurtured, cared for, watered and beautified to the best of your ability. I also wrote this article a while ago 7 Signs It's Time to End Your Relationship in which I stated that while you may love the … [Read more...]