I know what you are thinking- because a year ago I would have been thinking the EXACT same thing. If you are in love; true, intoxicating- THE NOTEBOOK- kind of love your physical appearance shouldn't amount to much. It isn't you- it's just your outer shell.  Regardless of whether you are 10 or 50 pounds over the weight you were when you got married-you are still the same person your spouse … [Read more...]