When I was pregnant with my first child, perfect strangers would approach me and regale me with tales of their flabby misshapen tummies. Women would dole out unsolicited advice non-stop and say things like, “Oh you are so big, I really hope you bounce back! That belly looks like it is really being stretched to the max.” And after my first child, which was a natural birth for me, my tummy did … [Read more...]