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This Wife Wouldn’t be Caught Dead Wearing Mom Jeans // Eclectic Outfits

May 19, 2018 by Melissa Chapman 14 Comments

I have never, ever looked good in a twin set. Believe me when I first got married my husband tried in vain to go get me to dress-up in a style he thought was best suited for me. And being that when I met him I was 22 and dare I say it a wee bit impressionable, I acquiesced and took him shopping with me. Suffice it to say it was a NIGHTMARE. We spent the bulk of our time screaming at each other behind  the closed doors of our dressing room- and although he convinced me to take home a few buttoned down preppy shirts and attempted to clone me in the image of an L.L. bean cover girl- I just could not go along with his vision for me. To this day he says I never took to the “Classy Look”. And while I can admit that I definitely experimented with a few BAD style choices as a 22 year old-year, now that I’m 44 and completely comfortable in my skin I have carved out a style that is my own which my husband says is devoid of any sleaze factor.

This Wife Wouldn't be Caught Dead Wearing Mom Jeans // Eclectic Outfits

This is not to say that I don’t opt for conservative pieces and muted colors, I do, but I also really enjoy adding different colors and textures and if truth be told I like everything I wear to be TIGHT. I am a TINY girl. I am four feet 11 inches tall with a double D chest size. I I wear any blouses without a waist I get LOST in the garment. While my husband would prefer I wear more loose-fitting garments, after 18 years he has decided this is ONE ARGUMENT HE WILL NOT WIN.

I also love to experiment with feminine and sporty pieces and to have fun and wear these red and pink cowboy boots I got in Ohio for $25. So I thought it would be fun to scour Pinterest for some eclectic outfits and share a few of my favorites with you!

I love this Princess Tulle Look from  Hello Fashion Blog
I need this Pink Tulle Skirt!
You can nab a similar Tulle Skirt from Anthropologie
Sparked Tulle Skirt by Moulinette Soeurs at Anthropologie
Sparked Tulle Skirt
by Moulinette Soeurs
at Anthropologie

I live for dressing up a Graphic Tee and pairing it with my jean jacket. Love this look from Penny Pincher Fashion

denim; graphic tee; statement necklace; fashion; style

And Camo Pants are one of my essential GO tos! I love this look from xoxo Cleverly Yours: baseball tee & camo pants

baseball tee & camo pants

And of course I can’t EVER have enough BLING and sparkle in my life- ! Love this Gold Jacket from  theglitterguide.tumblr.com

fashion jacket gold sequins

 And while my style may not RESONATE with that of my husband’s idea of what my style should be- 18 years of mostly wedded bliss later we are making it work and learning to live with ( and LOVE) each other’s individuality.

But the real question is: How ( if at all) has your style changed from when you first met your spouse to the present?

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  1. Jennifer StAntoine says

    August 4, 2015 at 7:38 am

    Can’t say I really have a particular “style” and it does kind of change from time to time… if anything I probably dress UP a lot more than I did ten years ago. Don’t know if my husband likes it or not, but now that you got me curious, I’m going to ask him today! But, I too LOOOOVE eclectic “Carrie Bradshaw” looks. You can totally carry that off, but I don’t have the body for it… or the environment! haha Love it though.

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  2. candy says

    May 20, 2018 at 5:42 pm

    I am mush more the along the lines of dressing conservative. I enjoy bright colors and looking nice. We live on a farm and jeans and t-shirts are standard work clothes for us. Everyone has different lifestyles which make us who and what we are.

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  3. Penny says

    May 20, 2018 at 9:55 pm

    Oh, these are such cute styles! I find it is more my body type than the cut of jeans that I am more often displeased with, but I understand what you mean. Too fun, thanks for sharing!

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  4. Carol Cassara says

    May 20, 2018 at 11:32 pm

    I haven’t really changed my style because of anyone but I now that i think of it, I think I tried to adjust what I’ve been wearing during the recent days because of my mood with other people. Are they causing this change or is it just me? Good question! But one thing’s for sure, I really love that Anthropologie skirt, I feel like it says a lot of things with its simple but radiant look and contrast with a good upper part.

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  5. Heather says

    May 21, 2018 at 4:51 am

    My husband seriously does not have a care in the world with what I wear. I found it odd he’d be the one wanting to take you clothes shopping. That is totally unlike my husband.

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  6. Dana Peller says

    May 21, 2018 at 2:20 pm

    I like all the alternatives you’ve shared to mom jeans. I will admit that I wear them here and there, but I do prefer trousers or a dress.

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  7. Heather says

    May 21, 2018 at 6:08 pm

    There are so many cute pieces here. I love the idea of dressing up a tee with jewels and a jacket!

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  8. Jennifer Mitchell says

    May 21, 2018 at 7:53 pm

    There are so many outfits here that are adorable. I definitely don’t dress the part of a mom most of the time.

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  9. Terri Beavers says

    May 22, 2018 at 4:56 am

    I wear jean jackets with everything. They’re just some. All of these outfits look great and I’ll have to check them out.

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  10. Aileen Adalid says

    May 22, 2018 at 6:05 pm

    Haha I love your post! Personally, I never liked jeans of any kind. They’re so tight and uncomfortable. I’m always the most comfortable in a dress 😀

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  11. Angie says

    May 23, 2018 at 8:09 pm

    Who needs mom jeans when there are so many cute outfits you can wear-and you sure do! I always love to see what you’re wearing.

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  12. Beverly says

    February 29, 2024 at 2:19 pm

    When I was working I wore suits but now that I’m retired I’m back to what I consider a style that’s more me! I don’t want to look like everyone else and I would never wear mom jeans either! I love graphic T’s, Jean jackets and I have more than one pair of harem pants! I DO love your gold glitter jacket and the tulle skirt AND if I was younger and a few pounds thinner I would go for it! I love to shop and I love clothes and YES I’m that person that dresses up to go to the grocery store! 🤣 I just feel better when I’m “put together” and I’ve noticed that you get better service that way! My husband doesn’t really care what I wear and he is always quick to tell me how cute I look! However he does on occasion just shake his head and ask if I’m really going to wear that! Well of course!!! I just really love to think outside the box!

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