Romance is not just for Valentine’s Day; romance adds spice, texture and color to life. Unfortunately, most of us don’t utilize this much in our life and relationship. Sound Familiar? Keep reading for Tips to Get Your Date Night On and Bring Romance into Your Relationship.
Romance is probably one of the hardest muscles to exercise unless you are in the dating world, and even then you might feel challenged. Attracting love, maintaining a relationship and figuring out what will tickle your spouse is something you will need to work on every day of your marriage.
Lucky for us Emma K. Viglucci, LMFT is sharing some Tips to Get Your Date Night On and Bring Romance into Your Relationship aka how to exercise our romance and passion muscle and help us attract our “soul mate” whether you are dating and/or help you tickle your partner if you are in a relationship.
Ready? So, the goal is not really to find your “soul mate” and obviously not to turn your partner into your soul mate. The goal is to become soul mate material! Yes, take a second to digest that… This journey is not about finding or having the right person but about Being the right person, Being YOU… For when you are you, you will attract and create Awesomeness and have all the romance and passion you desire!
How do you measure up in the Being Fabulous department? Yes, at your core you are fabulous, but are you owning your fabulousness? Or are you walking around with defense mechanisms and less than attractive qualities that actually repel others, including your partner? This is where it all starts, with you. When you show up with your fabulous Self all else is a walk in the park.
Keep reading for her Tips to Get Your Date Night On and Bring Romance into Your Relationship. Techniques to empowering you, to bringing out your swag, and to exercising your romantic muscle to keep the romance and passion going!
Tips to Get Your Date Night On and Bring Romance into Your Relationship
Soulful Dates™
On the first Sunday of the month, pick two hours per week where you and your partner get to have special “Me Time.” Block off the time and make arrangements to have this time honored. During this time, read an inspiring book or listen to inspiring programs or other audio material, attend a prayer group, meditate, attend a religious service, do yoga, get a massage or other body treatment, tinker with your plants or in your garden, journal, do any other self growth and development, spiritual or self care activity that nurtures and replenishes the two of you and your relationship.
And if that soulful date includes a Game Night in-then go for it!
Be mindful.
Don’t forget to make mindfulness a part of your date night.
Build into your interactions:
– Use of your gender energy (femininity, masculinity)
– Listening, validation and understanding, compassion and empathy
– Vulnerability and showing up
– Courtesy, mindfulness, thoughtfulness, nurturing, chivalry
Build into your special time together:
– Stimulating the senses
– Doing something different, having a different experience
– Adding a challenge, adventure or physicality
– Being somewhere different
– Fantasy and roleplaying… (even if it’s just in your mind!)
Dress the Part.
Nab some clothing that you designate just for your date nights. Try and veer from your usual style and choose ones that show off your best assets, are colorful and hug you in all the right places. here are a few Date Night options worth considering.
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Create a Joint Tickle Box™
This is an incubator where the two of you get to generate the connection, the fun, the romance, the experiences… Find a box that talks to both of you. It can be rustic, it can be frilly.
This is your box, give it your personality. Store your special treasures in this stunning Amethyst Acrylic Decorative Box.
Stylish yet functional it Features a sleek, translucent acrylic box and lift off lid topped with a gorgeous cluster of amethyst, this decorative box measures four inches wide, by four inches deep, by three inches high, and is an elegant addition to any home.
Or, you can make a virtual “box”! Use this box to collect sexy and romantic ideas and resources like trendy restaurants, perfect gifts, ultimate experiences, songs, delightful treats, great websites, activities, outings, whatever grabs your fancy. This is your fun, excitement, and romance generating box. The more you put in, the more you’ll get out. This is your go to place to create awesome energy and for creating romance. !
Use these tools to get in touch with your Self, to bring your Fabulous Self out to play, to create your brand of swag and blow your partner away with your brilliance and awesomeness. Be patient with yourself and your partner. Rome wasn’t built in a day. Focus on bringing your best Self forward and setting up your relationship for ongoing awesomeness one day, one new investment at a time.
Happy Romancing!!
Tickle Box sounds like fun! I am always looking for ways to keep things fresh in my marriage 🙂
Good ideas! My husband and I could certainly use a date night away from these kids, we’ve barely been able to escape since I had my daughter in July.
Date night is really important especially if you’ve been married for years! It’s one of the best ways to keep the fire burning! I think these are wonderful tips!