Tips to help you unlock your inner goddess and bring some Pure Romance into your Marriage is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of Pure Romance
Despite some matchmaking companies claiming they have isolated a mathematical algorithm which can scientifically create a romantic connection between two people, in my opinion, after dating for what felt like an eternity and being married for 19 years, when it comes to love I have a few theories of my own and Tips to help you unlock your inner goddess and bring some Pure Romance into your Marriage.
Being in love and sustaining love with someone are two entirely different things. When you meet someone- and the stars align-for that brief moment you are shot with this insane amount of adrenaline mixed with lust. Sure, you feel like you’re in love, but as one who has been shot with that arrow many a time I can tell you that, that perceived feeling of euphoria will more often than not dissipate. In my experience, once the lust faded I was crushed by the reality that this person and I had nothing to say to one another once that physical excitement petered out, or that ultimately, he and I had completely different ideas about what constituted a relationship and the maintenance of love (I required monogamy and he not so much).
In reality, true, gut wrenching, painful, fierce, all encompassing love is so much more than what you can ever imagine it might be when you think you’ve met the one. And while candlelit dinners, baubles and a bathtub for two are all great methods to heat up passion with your partner and attempt to reignite that initial “being in love” spark the two of you shared, real love and the maintenance of it- requires some real work. And chocolates, champagne and a hotel room sans kids, just won’t cut it.
As a married woman, even after 19 years, I still want to hold onto that feeling of being deeply and madly in love with my spouse. But more than anything, as a wife, I desperately want to keep that deeper spiritual and emotional connection with my spouse, which I know is what is truly the lifeblood of any committed and long-term relationship. So, to that end keep reading for my tips Tips to help you unlock your inner goddess and bring some Pure Romance into your Marriage in partnership with Pure Romance .
These are my favorite- ground in reality tips that will help you fall in love with your spouse all over again and with any luck make every day Valentine’s Day.(And for this chick who will be married 20 years on December 19, 2018 that is an endeavor that makes me giddy!) Ultimately, marriage is like a marathon, not a sprint and like any long race, a relationship needs awareness and adjustments along the journey.
The following Tips to help you unlock your inner goddess and bring some Pure Romance into your Marriage can help you stay connected to your spouse and truly reignite the deeper connection and love you share.
Tips to help you unlock your inner goddess and bring some Pure Romance into your Marriage
1.MAKE TIME for the most important person in your life—YOU!
So you can accept the love your partner wants to envelop you with in every shape and form! And this is what I LOVE about Pure Romance.
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2. Stop using your spouse as an emotional dumping ground.
Sometimes we end up using the time we spend with our spouse as an opportunity to complain about the same old issues over and over. If you are stuck in an emotional rut or unhappy in your career, seek a neutral party to figure it out and shift the time you spend with your loved one from complaining to connection.
3. BE VERSATILE.
The more ways you and your partner can find to give each other pleasure, the happier, healthier, and easier your sex life will be. The sexual connection is important because it bonds you together producing brain chemistry that’s been proven to improve marital and parental skills. Amazing but true! So whether you just want to test the waters and check out some pure romance products to put a little spice into your marital sex routine – the best way to kick start the fun is to host your own PURE ROMANCE PARTY and be surrounded by your besties enjoying some vino and taking a gander at all the latest offerings.
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4. And last but not least don’t forget about giving good old-fashioned compliments.
Yes, these still really work and even though your spouse may be startled to receive them out of blue, keep going. Acknowledge your spouse’s inner and outer beauty, their talents, and day to day achievements. We all want to be seen and being seen by the person who knows you the best, means a lot.
So, what are some of your Tips to help you unlock your inner goddess and bring some Pure Romance into your Marriage and keep those embers burning?
We have date night every week, still laugh and love doing things together. Have some romance in the bedroom, bathroom or whatever room just go for it and enjoy. Married 37 years.
I have learned when I take a little bit of time for me that life seems to run smoother. Although I do still end u frustrated at times and my spouse is the one who gets the brunt of my feelings. Thank you for reminding me to stop treating him this way.
I’ve heard about Pure Romance. I probably should be more romantic with my husband, but I’m too tired most nights. Maybe one day I’ll have energy and surprise him! We do like to compliment each other. He’ll be all, “Thanks for not burning dinner,” and I’ll say, “Thanks for acting like you liked it even though it tasted like burnt toast.”
I’ve been married 21 years and I have to say spending some time with each other is key. With all the daily stresses of life, it’s good to come home to someone who I can still laugh with AND at and someone who laughs with me and at me. We really genuinely enjoy each other’s company.
What? I have to compliment him instead of fighting with him? That is not easy when we are trying to negotiate parenthood as well! And thanks for the reminder, marriage is work, and not to be taken lightly, but embraced!
I’ve been married 29 years and I agree marriage takes work. We try to make time to do some sort of event with each other weekly even if it is something small like going on a walk through the local national park.
These are some pretty good tips and relatable advice. Thanks for sharing this post with us.
Yes! I’m married 41 years this year and while things haven’t always been the best, we worked through a lot of things together. Loving reading about your relationship!
I really enjoyed this post. Great tips! Looking forward to checking out this site.
I have never heard of these products. It is hard being romantic as a mom. Being pulled in so many directions all the time. It is important to keep the romance though.
Well, my husband and I are 12 years strong. So I guess we are doing something right.
I believe in the power of scent, like from those Pure Romsnce offers. We try for date nights and I also love long car rides for talking while my daughter sleeps in the back and we play music.
Well this sounds fun. Who couldn’t use a little more romance in their lives? I’m going to check it out.
How fun! Great tips. I could use some more romance in my life, i mean 8 kids and we don’t generally have the time but we do have date nights and they could use some more spice!
These are some great tips to keep the embers of romance burning. It is so necessary in a relationship. One needs to put in the effort to keep the romance fresh.
My biggest piece of advice is to always listen to each other. My husband and I have been together for the better part of our life so I hope we are doing it right. You have great tips and I gotta look into these products, scent is a powerful thing.
I love that they have these products too. My sister in law sells Pure Romance, and a lot of these products smell amazing. I’m loving all these great tips you have here.