I can’t change the fact that When my husband is 80 I’ll be 65 is a sponsored post.
I had this really sobering reality check today; that I can’t change the fact that When my husband is 80 I’ll be 65. And it probably won’t be pretty. And I’ll probably appear to strangers as his nursemaid as opposed to his wife. Unfortunately when I met him at the tender age of 23–I saw him as the handsome 38 year old man he was-I didn’t conceive of anything beyond that. Don’t get me wrong clearly I knew we had 15 years between us- but at the time I considered just the positives our union could yield me. Other than to joke about his old man status- I honestly didn’t contemplate what his age meant in real terms and the “I can’t change the fact that When my husband is 80 I’ll be 65” was not even on my radar.
But here’s the truth of it-he is 15 years older than me– and I can’t believe I am 45, the age he was when we were still newlyweds. By the time I met him he had already lived a lifetime worth of memories and experiences, and how do I know this– because at 45 years old, that is exactly how I feel.
Of course I didn’t realize this at 23, how much life experience he’d accrued at 38 and I think I just liked his maturity, his self-assuredness and his calming force. Even now at 60 ( he will be 61 on May 10th) he is still all those things– although he has slowed down considerably, and well-I imagine he will grind to an absolute HALT by the time he’s 80. But here’s the thing I’ll still only be 65. Hopefully a gosh darn hot 65 year old, with plenty more spunk and joy to eck outta this world- and my husband— what will his energy level be at?
I can’t say I ever contemplated this seriously until today– and I also can’t say that the thought of what we’ll be like in 25 years from now doesn’t frighten the hell out of me. Of course my husband says he will still be out-running me when he’s 80 and I’m 65…here’s to hoping he keeps his promise. Of course I also know that none of us has a crystal ball. I can’t change the fact that When my husband is 80 I’ll be 65. None of us know how much time we have on this planet, and therefore we need to grab our joy- we need to take happiness wherever and whenever we can find it.
And while I can’t control the future- aka I can’t change the fact that When my husband is 80 I’ll be 65 – I can control the present- and marinating in it and enjoying the moments we do have right here and right now. And what better way to do so than with a festive drink? But wait! Did you know that one regular Margarita is over 600 calories per serving? Using Cascade Ice, I can knock that down to just around 55 and keep my husband healthy in the process– it’s a win win! Keep reading for a few festive drink recipes that are Low-cal, but full of flavor!
Pink Grapefruit Lemonade.
For a family affair, whip up the Pink Grapefruit Lemonade. Fill a glass with ice cubes and pour 6oz of Pink Grapefruit Cascade Ice and 2 oz of Lemonade Cascade Ice over the ice. Squeeze the lemon juice from a fresh lemon into your glass and make sure to strain the lemon seeds. Add a couple slices of fresh lemon to garnish.
Skinny Daiquiri
Try a delicious Skinny Daiquiri. To create this sweet treat, add 1.5 cups of ice and 1.5 cups frozen strawberries into your blender. Pour in 8oz Cascade Ice Wild Berry and your choice of rum. Blend until smooth. Pour into a chilled glass and garnish with fresh fruit.
Watermelon Slushie
This Watermelon Slushie is oh-so-delicious! In a blender, combine a few handfuls of ice, several seedless watermelon chunks and 8oz Blueberry Watermelon Cascade Ice. Then, pour in 6oz of club soda. Blend to desired consistency and enjoy!
So here’s to enjoying a cocktail with the one you love RIGHT NOW!
I am 14 years older than my SO and I definitely think abt this issue a lot, especially as the older female. I don’t go as far as 80 and 65, but me being 65 and him being 51. I used to have public support with Demi and Katie couric, but no longer. He is great and says “we are all getting older” but still…
By the way, we met the same ages as you guys, but opposite sex – me 37, him 23. I often think of the lives I have lived prior!!
Are you still together and doing well? I can’t imagine being the 80 year old woman when my partner is like 62!
My husband and I are 14 years apart. He’s been married before and he’s my first. Yes, he has a lot of life experience and he tease each other. I’m the spring chick so, he teases me about things that happened before I was born or when I was born he was out of schooland I tease him about his old age memory and his aches and pains. And, we have a two year old together. That all that we have different, we come together and love one another and have so much respect for each other.
Can’t change the age but you can help everyone be as healthy as they can at any age. Getting up and out for walking and eating healthier is a start.
Age is just a number and you have the best attitude regarding the age difference. My husband is only 3 years older than me but my best friend’s husband is 10 years older than her and they have the best marriage.
Age is so much more than a number. I used to think that same thing, but growing older with a spouse 16 years my senior has shown me it is huge. At least a generation apart and as we age the space seems greater.
I think that age is a number and the important thing is that you are happy. I am older and while we have ups and downs we work together.
I am with you, age is just a number! It seems like you guys are happy, which is a plus.
These drinks sound so amazing! I must try them.
I wonder how you feel about the age difference in 2022 as opposed to four years ago. My husband just turned 80 and I am 68. Life can surprise you. I have dealt with health issues in recent years so I could not join my husband hiking the Alps this year. Instead he went with a 45 year old guy who is our friend. Don’t assume you will be the caregiver.
That’s a great attitude you have at least. It’s always a great time for a cocktail. You’re right to savor the moments and not worry about the long-term future too much.
I don’t think age really matters in the grand scheme of things. My parents were 10 years and a foot and 2 inches apart. I think you should enjoy every moment, because no one’s guaranteed tomorrow, no matter what the age.
Age is just a number, as long as you are happy who cares, as long as there is love that’s all that matters! Enjoy every moment no matter how old you are.
The Watermelon Slushie makes me think of summer! Pink Grapefruit Lemonade would be a good brunch cocktail and I say this because grapefruit makes me think of morning mealtime. Cheers!
That’s the kind of true love and age doesn’t matter. Keep up the great relationship you have.
Age is nothing but a number. I like dating guys older than I am, they seem to have their head on their shoulders and know what they want out of life.
I think it’s great that you formed a connection regardless of your age difference. This drink sounds delicious and a great way to celebrate!
I really believe that age is just a number. Your age difference is 15…ours is more than that, but it don’t bother me. I live each day as it comes.
Oooo that drink looks refreshing! I don’t think about age. My mom is 80 and people think she is 65. It’s about how you care for yourself, I think!
I want to try that watermelon slushie! If your husband is active now, chances are he still will be at 80. My mom is almost 85 and she is still active. I think the older you are, the less the age difference matters.
These drinks look fantastic and these would be perfect for a drink with the person you love. And it doesn’t metter the age!
I do believe that is just a number. What matters most is how you love each other.
The drinks look refreshing! Yes, enjoy a cocktail with the one you love and create more memories. Don’t worry about the age.
I always forget he is older than you are. Anyway I think you be okay since he seems to be in pretty good shape! And I love all your drink recipes
Those are some great looking cocktails. Mmm, I could go for one right now. You have to enjoy all the time we are blessed with.